people who reclaim the word queer:
people who cannot reclaim the word queer:
straight cis people who like buttplugs or something
non-vanilla sex =/= queer
Queer, trans-genderqueer, kinkster here: Queer =/= only gay, or only trans, or only gay and trans people. Some might say that that is a rather unqueer assumption. It is saying that heterosexuality is always normative. And as an additional note, what exactly is “vanilla” anyway?